Om håndtryk

jun 8, 2015 by

KobberbryllupFor et par uger siden var vi jo til en dejlig kobberbryllupsfest. En helt igennem fantastisk aften, hvor der blev grædt, grinet og danset – hvad mere kan man ønske sig!?

Resultatet af flere timers forberedelse blev således – jeg har en lækker mand 😛
Om ½ år er det vores egen tur til at fejre kobberbryllup. Det er helt utroligt som tiden går – det er en kliché at sige sådan, men det gør det ikke mindre sandt. På vores 12 års ægteskab har vi nået mange ting, ting vi, ved hver bryllupsdag, minder os selv om. Det er vigtigt, når man har en hverdag med faste rutiner, børn og travlhed. Selvom man er kronisk syg, så løber tiden stærkt 😀

 

Men det er sjældent man husker tilbage på, eller fremhæver, skyggesiderne ved fede fester. Der er imidlertid nogle stykker.
Jeg har før nævnt det med de høje hæle, som giver mig enormt mange smerter her, der og allevegne. Det holder stadig! Jeg havde dog medbragt mine fine flade sko, så jeg kunne svinge dansebenene uden at se fuldstændig forpint ud.

En anden ting er håndtryk. Ja, hvem tænker normalt over håndtryk? Det gør jeg, og jeg har gjort mig mange tanker!
Er der noget, jeg ikke bryder mig om, så er det et håndtryk, hvor det føles som en klump vådt vat, man får i hånden. Ahmen altså… Det er nok det værste, jeg kan blive udsat for, når jeg skal hilse på folk – “den døde hånd”. Men så igen, det er måske af omtanke for andre, at man ikke lægger alle krafter i?Handshakes-01-GQ_31Oct13_b_813x494
For det jeg efterhånden tit lægger mærke til, er de knogleknusende håndtryk. Nu har jeg jo mange problemer med min højre hånd – min tommelfinger er on-off smerteforpint, og mit håndled er fuldstændig hævet, ømt og bevægeindskrænket – så når jeg får et solidt herre-håndtryk, så er det lige ved at sende mig i gulvet. Er det nogle jeg kender relativt godt, så siger jeg pænt “av, det var et solidt håndtryk”. De ser straks meget undskyldende ud, hvilket jo egentlig også er synd, for jeg gør det ikke for at skælde ud, men mere for at gøre opmærksom på, at de hilser hårdt. Jeg giver altid en forklaring, hvilket ofte afføder en hyggelig samtale – ikke om mig, men det fungerer lidt som en icebreaker, hvor man så griner lidt og pludselig hører om andres skavanker også!

I bund og grund er jeg ikke glad for at snakke om mig selv og mine problemer – det er så trættende og deprimerende, og der er simpelthen så mange, som ikke magter al den information. Det kan jeg fint sætte mig ind i – derfor fortæller jeg om mig, her.

Nå, men denne gang var det kære Lasse, det gik ud over. Men han er en skøn person, som ville tænke over sit solide håndtryk – én mindre at skulle være nervøs over at hilse på 🙂

Jeg elsker et godt håndtryk, og giver også selv et hvor jeg tager fat om hånden, uden at mase og uden at føle, at jeg er ved at tabe hånden på den jeg giver håndtryk. Det er en hårfin balance – tænk over det næste gang du trykker hånd 😉

En sidste mørk side ved fester er, at man, når man har passeret de 30, altid er træt nærmest flere uger efter. Vi er aldrig dem, der går først hjem, men det bider os i øjenlågene de næste mange dage. Oj, hvor har vi været trætte! Men vi fortryder heldigvis ingenting.


Rosa pæon

Ha’ en rigtig dejlig solskinsdag

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