Om mit særligt sensitive barn

sep 10, 2015 by

Min førstefødte dejlige pige på 5 år er særligt sensitiv. Ja, hvem er ikke det efterhånden!?Hello Kitty
Men det er hun altså. Det er ikke en label, vi har haft et stort behov for at sætte på hende, men da børnehaven for godt 1½ år siden gjorde os opmærksom på “fænomenet”, undersøgte vi det og fandt ud af, at hun var meget påvirkelig overfor sine omgivelser, havde et meget stort søvnbehov efter en uge i børnehave og decideret blev arrig og udadreagerende, hvis vi ikke slappede lidt af. Derudover opdagede vi, at det var årsagen til hendes meget opmærksomme sind. Har en af os været kede af det, har hun altid kommet med sin lille hånd i vores for at give kærlighed og varme. Det er bestemt ikke en dårlig egenskab at være sensitiv, jeg synes faktisk, det er en virkelig vidunderlig egenskab at kunne give kærlighed og varme til dem som har behov for det.

Det gør vores dejlige A. I disse dage har jeg ikke været så glad og ovenpå som normalt. Det har resulteret i så mange dejlige og oprigtige kram fra min store pige. Jeg nyder virkelig den opmærksomhed jeg får. Men samtidig bliver jeg lidt mere ked af det. For min pige på 5 år skal ikke gå og passe på mig, og føle at hun skal trøste, når hun mærker, at mor er ked af det. Sådan skal det ikke være. Nej, min datter skal helst være uvidende om de dumme ting der foregår i verden. Omend hun skal advares mod alle de tossede ting der foregår. Det er en hårfin balance, og jeg tænker tit, om jeg deler for meget med hende. Hun er videbegærlig og er på mange områder meget moden af sin alder. Hun forstår mange ting, ting som jeg ville ønske hun ikke gjorde. Jeg tror og håber, det gør hende endnu mere stærk, end hun allerede er nu.

A rummer alle børn og voksne. Hun kan godt se, at nogen er anderledes, og så spørger hun “hvorfor sidder han i en rullestol?”. Jeg tysser aldrig på hende, men forklarer f.eks. “det er nok fordi han har en sygdom der gør, at han ikke kan bruge sine ben – det er sikkert ikke sjovt. Men hvor er det godt, at han så har en stol, så han kan komme ud at handle”. Vi gør det naturligt, lige som jeg tænker, at den vi snakker om ville ønske.
A trøster de andre børn i børnehaven, hvis de er kede af det. Så får de en arm om skulderen og bliver ført ind til en af de voksne. Hun kommer ind til min seng om natten og siger, at lille L er vågnet – altså de nætter hvor hun ikke sover fra al larmen.

Hun er verdens bedste storesøster – og en helt normal en af slagsen. For hun bliver stadig TOSSET, når lille L kommer og snupper en af hendes Barbie-dukker midt i en leg. Ja, de deler værelse, og det giver nogle udfordringer. Men de elsker hinanden. Og jeg elsker, at de elsker hinanden. Mit hjerte smelter, og jeg kan slet ikke få nok af at betragte mine to søde piger.

 

Er du i tvivl, om du har et barn, der er særligt sensitiv? HER kan du tage en test, resultatet bør dog ikke stå alene.
Vi var til en samtale med børnehaven, og sammen fandt vi ud af, efter at have taget testen og lavet nogle forandringer i vores dagligdag, at A var særligt sensitiv. Det er ikke en diagnose, men en tilstand. Du kan ikke medicinere dig ud af den, eller som sådan gøre noget ved den. Udover at indføre en mere rolig hverdag, faste rammer, ikke for mange aftaler og, hvad der har været vigtigst for os, at informere A om de ting der skal foregå, så hun har mulighed for at forberede sig. F.eks. “på fredag skal vi til tandlægen”. Hun plejer at bliver sur og gal, fordi hun ikke bryder sig om disse ting. Men når vi er i god tid, så ender det med at gå rigtig godt.

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Håber du får en dejlig dag med masser af kram og kærlighed – ligesom mig 😉

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