Om stiletter, kvindelighed og socialisering

feb 5, 2015 by

Kvinder er kvinder – i hvert fald de fleste. Og hvad elsker kvinder?? Dullegrej, dulledag og generelt dullerier!

Selvom det regner ned over mig med sygdom, har jeg behov for, engang imellem, at være kvindelig – iklæde mig lækkert tøj, høje sko og makeup. På den måde bliver mine sygdomme pakket væk, dog kun for en enkelt aften, men det er nogle fede aftener, hvor jeg føler mig normal.
I hvert fald nogenlunde normal. Når der er gået 5 minutter, hvor jeg har været iført de høje hæle, så er jeg ved at dø! Især hvis man kommer forbi brostensbelægning, græs eller lignende.
Jeg skal bruge en STOL!

Jeg har i mange år købt stiletter efter, hvordan de så ud. Det har indenfor det sidste års tid ændret sig til, hvor høje de er.
For nogle år tilbage, tog jeg til Paris, og købte mine første og de absolut lækreste Christian Louboutin stiletter, synes jeg. Allerede dengang var jeg bevidst om, at stiletter ikke skulle være 12-15 cm høje – i hvert fald ikke i min verden – men at 10 cm var tilpas for mig. Det er de så ikke længere. Jeg måtte sælge de smukke sko, da de liiiige var en tand for høje. Og jeg har så fundet ud af, at 8-9 cm passer bedre ind i min mormor-verden. Dét er bare ikke helt det samme. Selvom man kommer op fra støvet, så føles det bare for rart til at være smart. Endnu én af de kameler jeg har måttet sluge i forbindelse med al min dårligdom. Jeg trøster mig dog med, at andre “normale” kvinder, også får ondt i fødderne af de høje hæle. Hos mig er det imidlertid ondt i fødder, ondt i knæ, ondt over lænden, og smerter i flere dage efter en aften på stylter.
Højden har, som nævnt, ændret sig. Og heldigvis har moden også ændret sig. Det er nu moderne med en 8 cm hæl, og man kan få enormt mange lækre sko, som er til at holde ud af iføre sig – wehuuuu!

Men kvindelighed skal der til. Jeg nægter at sidde fast i joggingstøjet herhjemme og leve af andres oplevelser. Heldigvis er vi beriget med mange skønne venner, som er gode til at invitere til fest med dans. Vi danser til den lyse morgen, trods vores alder og små børn, som dog bliver passet hos bedsteforældrene ved disse fester. Mit dårlige helbred skal ikke lægge en stopper for mit sociale liv, jeg elsker at være social.

Næste fest er lige om hjørnet, kjolen er købt, en lækker sag fra David Andersen, og jeg skal have høje sko på til. Det bliver ikke til at holde ud hele aftenen, men jeg må på jagt efter nogle fede ballerinaer, som vil gå godt til min korte kjole…. Good luck me!

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